"I arrived at the Someday Refuge Retreat completely burned out, not even sure what I truly needed..."
I arrived at the Someday Refuge Retreat completely burned out, not even sure what I truly needed. Brent and Michelle created such a welcoming, peaceful space that allowed the Lord to meet me in deep rest, renewing my heart with fresh joy for the journey ahead.
Julie
President
"I feel certain words will not be adequate to express how incredibly life changing and eternally significant our experience was at the Someday Refuge Retreat. As a couple deeply involved in full-time ministry, my husband and I were in desperate need of rest, refuge, and restoration, and this retreat provided exactly that and so much more."
From the moment we arrived, we were met with the warmest hospitality by Brent and Michelle Lapp. Their kindness, care and wisdom were evident in every interaction. They were not only available and attentive to our needs but also created an environment that was safe, fun and spiritually enriching. We connected deeply with them both individually and as a couple. Michelle is a woman of the Word and prayer. She spoke truth in love and was not afraid to address whatever was needed, providing insight and wisdom that was both challenging and encouraging. Brent is a gentle, fun and compassionate servant-leader who showed much love and respect to Michelle as they led together, creating a beautiful example of a godly partnership.
One of the many highlights of the retreat was the beyond awesome dining experiences. We were treated to three meals daily, each one creative and of 5-star quality. The attention to detail and the delicious variety made every meal a delightful experience as we shared the food as well as deep, meaningful conversation. The accommodations were excellent in every way.
The retreat was exceptional and tremendously transformative because of the way Brent and Michelle were constantly prayerful and being led by the Spirit. They held their agenda with open hands, inviting the Lord to shape the retreat as we progressed throughout the week. It was clear that both Brent and Michelle have a passion and profound understanding of the Word and a genuine desire to see couples thrive both spiritually and relationally. They provided a safe and supportive space for us to work through our own material which had been recommended by our counselor. Their availability for debriefing afterwards was incredibly helpful, allowing us the freedom to process and reflect on our challenges and progress in meaningful ways. Brent and Michelle walked alongside us through the hard and dark as the Lord shone His light and love in places that desperately needed prayer, healing and renewal. They were living examples of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, as they shared their lives with us, wept with us and rejoiced with us!
We left feeling refreshed, restored, and equipped to continue our journey with a renewed sense of hope, purpose and joy. I thank God for Brent and Michelle. I cannot not recommend highly enough the value and blessing of being a part of Someday Refuge! To God be the glory!
Paula
Women’s Minister, Bible Teacher, Mentor
"So much I could say about our week-long retreat! A blessing in every way, especially Brent and Michelle themselves."
The setting was as relaxing as one could hope for. Every need was anticipated and thoughtfully cared for – meals, accommodations, recreation, and a schedule with ample time for both rest and play. They tailored the retreat experience around our interests and preferences, creating the perfect environment for me to recharge, hear from God, heal, and connect with my wife.
I came to my retreat week weary and hurting, carrying the weight of ministry leadership while also processing some childhood trauma and self-contempt that has plagued me my entire adult life. I had no expectation that a week would change anything, but God … !
Brent and Michelle were so sensitive to where I was spiritually and emotionally, and created a safe space for me to share as I was willing. Their own “resume of wreckage” enabled them to truly empathize with my struggle and encourage me with truth. I’d find them every morning on the back patio with their coffee, praying specifically for us. What an incredible gift and answer to prayer this was. Truly a divine appointment and restorative experience – a spiritual marker in my life. I will forever be grateful for this week with Brent and Michelle Lapp!
Executive Director, Men’s Discipleship Ministry
"Michelle has been a guest speaker at our church twice in the past few years, once for our women's outreach event and once for our missions conference."
Both times we found her to be inspiring and honest. She goes beyond cliches to the real touchpoints where God has impacted her life. By sharing her own intense tragedies and unbelievable mountain tops, she paints the picture of a Savior who not only writes each one of our stories but who is big enough and loving enough to care for us in intimate and personal ways. We hope to have her bless our congregation again in the future!!!
Ryan
Associate Pastor, former missionary
"Someday Refuge gave my husband and I a renewed desire for silence, solitude, simplicity and Sabbath."
A call not to do more but to do less in order to make space to rest in Christ. I left with a new focus on self-care and armed with tools to achieve it. Thank you so much for your supportive care, and sharing your wisdom. Thank you for lavishly catering to each of us specifically in both emotional and physical needs. Thank you for the amazing meals! I highly recommend this retreat if you need time to regroup and refocus on your marriage and your heart.
Heather
Pastor’s Wife / Christian Educator /Former Missionary
"This week was the perfect blend of everything you could possibly want in a retreat."
Everything. One-on-one time with my spouse? Check. Time and space to draw near to Jesus? Check. Five-star accommodations–food, rooms, recreation, natural beauty–that people in ministry rarely experience? Check. Godly counsel and tools for marriage growth? Check. A mentor couple that is God-sent for this type of ministry? Check. Thank you, Brent and Michelle, for this experience of a lifetime. Our marriage and lives have been eternally changed.
Ryan
Associate Pastor